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One thing we always have around here is sidewalk chalk. When we had a house full of toddlers and preschoolers we would spend hours coloring on the sidewalk and driveway as a family. Working on writing our names, drawing paths for them to follow on scooters, and holding competitions to see who could draw an animal the best. When the two littlest Cowkids called me outside to see what they were working on I was so impressed. They’ve definitely taken their chalk art to a new level this Summer! Also, can we talk about how this project was the end result of almost an hour of them being outside and collaborating on something without a single argument?! This is why it’s so important to let your kids be bored, it’s in that downtime when true learning, growth, and magic happens…
Today I had a few stolen moments with a friend of mine that is going through a hard time, possibly one of the hardest seasons of her life so far. And when I checked in with her, and asked her how she was she said “I need to learn how to stop crying so much. I’m crying too much.” And without a thought I abruptly said “Says who? Who decided how much was okay and how much was too much? Cry as much as you want. Get it all out, don’t hold back. There are no rules. This is just right now, this isn’t forever.” I hugged her closely and fiercely and probably too tight…and we went on with our day. No one gets to tell you how to grieve. There are no rules to saying goodbye to a loved one, or the end of a marriage, or the life you thought was going to be. Cry all you want. Cry in public. Cry over stupid videos and songs on the radio. Let it out. Because if you keep it in because of some “rule” or an idea of what’s proper or right…it’s going to kill you.
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4 miles in the mountains today with these two…They’re always reluctant to go (typical tween and teen behavior) but once we’re on the trail they leave me in the dust! Grateful for summer memories, and thankful for kids who want to spend time with me. ❤️ #wyominglife
@redclaystrays at @chefrontierdays was absolutely amazing! I was already a fan, but now after seeing them live I may turn into a super fan! 10/10 for their music, their message, and the crowd! #redclaystrays #summerconcerts
Thank you to @elevate_glenrock for gathering up so many candidates in one place! The upcoming primary election is vital for Wyoming’s future, and I appreciated that we had the opportunity to learn from a wide variety of candidates, many of whom I had been wanting to talk to, but haven’t had the chance. Seeing so many local people willing to step up and be a part of our local government was inspiring. Even if we don’t agree on everything, I admire them for taking a stance and being willing to step into the arena! Wyoming, I can’t emphasize enough how important it is for you to show up and #vote on August 18th. 🙌👏
25 years ago I met this guy right here at @chefrontierdays in the beer tent. 22 years of marriage and 5 kids later…he’s still my favorite cowboy! 🥰
Because when you’re at @chefrontierdays you need to support local! So nice chatting with you @wearalexisdrake and stay tuned because I’ll be showing off what I bought 😘
It’s another roasting hot day here in Wyoming and I think Captain has the right idea about how to make it through the day… 🤫 #bergerpicard
Today I stepped into a brand-new role for both me and the Prairie Wife brand. While I was a little nervous, I was way more excited!
One thing I've learned over the last 12 (almost 13!) years of building this brand is that I have to stay open to change and be willing to step outside my comfort zone. Taking on new challenges is what keeps me growing and prevents me from getting too comfortable...and we can't have that, can we?
PrairieWifeInHeels.com started as a mommy blog. A place to connect with other women, wives, and mothers, and encourage them to live a life of grit and grace. While that mission has remained the same, my audience has grown to include EVERYONE not just women.
Over the years, this journey has taken me from blogging to building a social media brand, hosting a radio show, appearing on television, serving as an emcee and auctioneer, consulting with businesses/brands, speaking across Wyoming, and, most recently, advocating for Wyoming's children. Looking back, it's amazing to see how one "yes" led to another. Life certainly hasn't been boring around here, has it?
Today I officially began a new role as a Strategic Advisor for a company I've had the privilege of working with for several years. It's similar to the brand consulting I've done in the past, but instead of focusing on big-picture thinking, this role is centered on helping turn that vision into practical action...creating priorities, breaking down goals, developing action plans, and helping leaders navigate the day-to-day challenges that come with managing people and organizations.
I'll admit...my heart was pretty happy creating bullet-point agendas, organizing action items, and realizing I could instantly pull up notes from meetings I'd facilitated years ago. Sometimes being Type A can be a good thing!
If you've been feeling stuck lately, maybe this is your reminder to reevaluate your purpose, say yes to something new, or allow yourself to get a little (or a lot) uncomfortable.
After all, this life is what you make of it.
#gritandgrace
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